-all relationships depend on your relationship with Allah!
-hadith to get married young (medical, religious, social benefits)
-ask girls to list what they look for in spouse
-hadith, should look at taqwa first, if find spouse with Islam, then perfect!
-importance of marriage in Islam, half the deen. marriage not a fantasy world, it’s ibadah for Allah!
-requirements of marriage: wali (for bride), contract (optional), walima (recommended sunnah), two male witnesses, mahr for bride only, consent of both parties, righteous person (like imam) do the nikkah
-summary of rights:
husband: provide financial, physical, religious, and emotional support; head of the family
Wife: take care of the home, children, and husband
-have Islamic marriage!
1. No music
2. No mixing
3. No riba
4. No extravagance or waste (multiple days)
5. No ring or cake
6. Proper hijab
7. husband pays
-reason why so many divorces, marriage not for Islam, spouses not following Islam, wedding not Islamic, don’t understand opposite sex, don’t know rights of marriage or spouses
-tips for husband and wife:
Keep Allah as number One-give Him His rights and each other and children their rights
Overlook small faults, be grateful for what you have
Be patient
love and respect
communication to build trust
appreciate each other and what they do
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